When I talk to clients, their family members and other people who have had to appear in court, I’m always looking to see their reactions to being in the courtroom. I am usually told two things:
- How frightening and humbling it was for each of the defendants to stand in front of a judge.
- How much they would want an attorney with them if they had to appear in court.
During the proceedings, each defendant tries to put their best foot forward, but the whole experience is very reminiscent of coming clean about a bad deed to a stern parent. The judge was very patient and kind –he spoke directly to each defendant. I realized that if I was to stand before a judge as a defendant, I would want a few tips on how to do so beforehand, and I would want an experienced criminal defense attorney to be there on my behalf.
Tips for Appearing your Best in Court in Front of a Judge
If you have a court date approaching in Fort Collins, Loveland or Estes Park, you are most likely very nervous. It’s good to know what to expect, especially if you’ve never been in this situation before. Here are a few tips for appearing your best in court:
- Dress Well: You will be standing in front of the judge. While he/she will not be making a decision based on your clothing, it is wise to dress respectfully. Don’t wear revealing shirts, shorts, skirts, or dresses, or low-slung, baggy pants. If in doubt, look at what your attorney is wearing for reference.
- Be Well-Groomed: Make sure your hair is brushed, and that you look professional. Keep your makeup minimal and simple, and make sure your shoes are shined.
- Speak Well: Don’t use slang when you are answering the judge. Use “sir” or “ma’am,” and always refer to the judge as “Your Honor” to show respect.
- Eye Contact: Look directly at the judge when you are speaking with him. Have good posture, and hold your head high.
- Don’t Fidget: We know you’re nervous. Try not to twiddle your thumbs, bit your nails, or tap your feet. Breathe deeply and focus.
- Be Yourself: Don’t read a prepared statement. Speak from your heart, and don’t just have a paper that you read from. It makes it look as if you don’t know what you’re talking about.
- Listen: It doesn’t matter if you agree with what’s happening or not. It simply isn’t wise to disagree with a judge. Assume that what they’re telling you is good advice.
The Importance of Having an Experienced Attorney
Another thing to note is the importance of having an experienced attorney by your side. Appearing in court is intimidating – they use many legal rules and words which you might not understand. The most horrifying realization is that the District Attorney is there to prosecute you – he or she is there to prove that you are guilty, and he knows what the legal rules and words mean. Think about this: If you don’t have an attorney there, who is going to speak on your behalf and protect you? Who is going to tell your side of the story? If I was to appear in court, I would want someone to be there to represent me – to help carry the burden of responsibility of defending myself.